Just call me the Cleanup Woman...

So the only way I've decided it can be done is to get my hands dirty and my Mom doesn't want me to do such things as clean (there's that 50's divide where girls took home ec and boys took woodshop), but what she doesn't understand, what she doesn't see is that I'm not a girly girl and there is no reliable manpower (You can't trust anyone else to do the job sometimes except yourself)...

REVISED 12/16/10 - I took a trip to St. Louis with Kai and his other baby mama and their kid. I stayed on in St. Louis to sightsee and check out Wash U. when they left and it was really sweet of Mandy his cousin to give me a place to crash with her husband Mike...Really great people. Mandy's bro AJ asked me what I thought of Kai. I told him I was on the fence at that time. I wasn't sure if he was a good guy with bad intentions or a bad guy with good intentions or just a bad guy with bad intentions...Now I'm sure he's a pretty bad guy so it doesn't matter his intentions...He had me fooled at first with his work face and it took me showing him in front of his longtime friend Tino that I would not put up with him abusing me or our living arrangement.